He doesn’t listen to me…I don’t understand her…Why do we repeat the same fight?

“Becoming Us helps you understand your spouse via the lens of faith and the Enneagram.”
Ian Morgan Cron, Enneagram expert and author of The Road Back to You

Do you ever feel baffled by the person sleeping beside you? What if your spouse came with an instruction manual? Beth and Jeff McCord, founders of Your Enneagram Coach, have helped over 250,000 people discover their unique personality type and apply that knowledge to their relationships.

Becoming Us pulls back the curtain on marriage and weaves the Enneagram through the lense of the Gospel to reveal why you and your spouse behave in different ways. Beth and Jeff will explain how you can:

Answer the question, “What is my spouse thinking?”
Defuse conflict before it starts, especially the same old arguments 
Stop assuming each other’s motives and make communication work 
Affirm each other in meaningful ways that matter 
Enjoy your spouse all over again, even if you’ve loved each other for years

Whether you are preparing for marriage or celebrating a 50th anniversary, Becoming Us will revolutionize the way you view yourself and your spouse. Let Beth and Jeff guide you through the Enneagram and transform your marriage into the powerful relationship that God intended.

Yes, you really will understand your spouse better after you read this book.


Subject: Adult, Pub. Date: 2019-10-01, Book Id: 108, ISBN: 978-1642794168, Print Size: 6x9, Print Length: 264, Category: Faith

Beth McCord

Enneagram author, speaker, and coach Beth McCord is passionate about coming alongside individuals and helping them understand and interpret their story, allowing them to see that lasting change, meaningful relationships, and a life of deep purpose is possible. This passion is what drove her to create Your Enneagram Coach, a community designed to be a safe place for individuals to explore the Enneagram. Spending years training under the top Enneagram experts and pouring hundreds of hours into advanced certifications, Beth is now leading the way in simplifying the deep truths of the Enneagram from a Biblical perspective. 

Beth's mission is to make personal awareness and growth accessible for everyone, anywhere, so they can experience health and transformation in every area of their lives. Her heart for couples is to guide them to clarity and insight into their individual personalities and unique relationship dynamics, helping them break free from unhealthy patterns and transform into the couple God designed them to be. She believes that when spouses know and experience the unconditional love, forgiveness, and freedom they have in Christ, they can experience the intimate and thriving relationship of their dreams. Beth lives in Nashville, Tennessee with her husband, Jeff, and her kids, Nate and Libby.